Sleep-Deprived Wife Rethinks Her Marriage After Her Husband Told Her To Sleep In Guest Room If She Doesn't Want Dog To Interrupt Her Sleep
Couples call it quits for a ton of different reasons. Most cite financial difficulties as the final straw that tipped the scale but have you heard of anyone separating because their significant other prioritized the dogs over them?
This sleep-deprived wife has not only heard of it, but she is also going through it. Her husband used to have a dog named Alpha when they met, and three years later, they added Daisy to the mix to be Alpha's buddy.
Alpha, unfortunately, passed away in 2021, and OP's husband was distraught about it. He immediately wanted a dog because he thought Daisy would miss the companionship that Alpha used to provide.
OP was hesitant because she knew they couldn't dedicate enough time to a new dog. They both have demanding jobs, plus she wanted to take her time finding the perfect dog.
Her husband was relentless in convincing her and kept sending photos of rescue dogs they could adopt. Eventually, OP broke and agreed to go to a shelter.
They found a 2-year-old dog of the same breed and immediately fell in love with him. Bruno had a great temperament and seemed to gel well with Daisy.
That love soon turned to regret as Bruno proved to be a medically demanding dog. He has at least a dozen environmental and food-related allergies.
His condition forced OP to make changes to his diet, grooming, schedule, and budget
u/Grimace4EyesBruno is require to see his veterinary dermatologist frequently for his allergy vaccine, antihistamine shot, antibiotic, and a specialized allergy pill
u/Grimace4EyesThe problem is his treatment is not always potent depending on what season it is
u/Grimace4EyesHe will scratch, bite, and lick himself to find relief which interrupts OP's sleep on a daily basis
u/Grimace4EyesHer husband doesn't suffer so much because he is a deep sleeper. OP tried to use noise cancelling headphones and earplugs but she can still hear Bruno during his episodes.
u/Grimace4EyesShe has become irritable because she is not getting enough sleep which has since impacted her work performance
She asked her husband to keep their dogs downstairs instead of in their room but he flipped out. They fight when her husband realizes in the morning that she took the dogs downstairs in the middle of the night.
He said OP is an a**hole for kicking their dogs out so she can get a restful sleep. He told her to sleep in their guest room if she's so bothered by it but OP thinks she's not asking too much from him — is she the a**hole?
u/Grimace4EyesOP's husband better wake up and face reality before he loses OP as well
DeciduousEmu, Grimace4Eyes
He thinks OP is asking too much because he hasn't experienced firsthand how debilitating constant lack of sleep is
HardRainisFalling
They need to share this struggle and OP has to consistently wake her husband up every single time Bruno has one of his episodes
Alita_Moonsong, Grimace4Eyes
It was so bold of him to suggest that OP be the one to pack & move to the guest room instead of him
nolimitxox, FormalRaccoon637
The audacity of some people. OP was willing to find a good middle ground but her husband threw it all out and apparently he set the rules without consulting her.
Far_Anteater_256
Why does he need them to be in the room especially when he knows the dogs have impacted his wife's sleep?
exxtruxx
Dogs are great but they are not people. OP's husband is being ridiculous and it could cost him this marriage.
Jikal, Grimace4Eyes
He obviously made it clear that the dogs are number one. He has to stand by that choice and take charge of everything dog-related.
Yvette-Miu-Miu-Mom
They need couples therapy stat because his disregard for her wellbeing is sending them straight to the separation route
JosieJOK
Will this Reddit comments change his minds?
bamf1701, Grimace4Eyes
How difficult was that? Why did it take anonymous comments to change his mind?
Grimace4Eyes
They really do need to go to therapy. How are OP's multiple complaints not enough for her husband to see things from her perspective?
He was basically forcing her to stay sleep-deprived just so he could keep the dogs in the room while he slept soundly. If I were OP, I'd still be salty, to be honest.
