Redditor Asks If She Should Divorce After Learning That Her Husband Secretly Took A Paternity Test

Every relationship relies on trust and communication. If the couple has a communication issue, it's likely something that can be solved, but if the problem is broken trust, it'll probably stay that way.

Recently, a Reddit user reached out to the Reddit community asking for life advice. The OP explained she and her husband have been married for three years and share a one-and-a-half-year-old son.

The OP is also six months pregnant with a daughter. When the OP met her husband, he was very shy, which made the initial stages of their relationship rocky.

The OP believes his insecurities about his appearance and height were worsened by his then-friends, which she labeled "Incels." These friends caused them numerous conflicts.

They were saying the OP couldn't be trusted due to her having had previous relationships and suggesting she was using her husband financially despite the fact they were earning similar incomes. And the OP's husband allowed their words to disrupt his trust in her.

But it all stopped when they married, so the OP hoped for a peaceful married life. However, a few months into her pregnancy, her husband approached her and asked for a paternity test, spurred on by his friends' allegations.

The OP was devastated by this request, so she gave him an ultimatum: either drop the suspicions or proceed with a paternity test and a subsequent divorce. He had chosen to drop the doubts and soon cut ties with his toxic friends.

However, the OP recently discovered a hidden paternity test that her husband did behind her back. When she confronted him, he begged for forgiveness, assuring her he'd been over his trust issues.

But the OP is now enveloped in doubt and uncertainty. She is at a crossroads, struggling to choose the right path and with broken trust due to hidden lies in her marriage.