50 Y.O. Gets Scolded By Mom For Collecting Toys, Only For Them To Call Her Out Publicly For Giving Away Their Toys As A Kid

Childhood is a magical time for anyone to spread their wings and enjoy life to the fullest. However, not everyone is fortunate enough to experience this blissful phase without some pain.

In this Reddit story, we delve into the complex relationship between a now 50-year-old individual and their parents, who scared them emotionally during their childhood —a wound that has still not healed till this day.

The story begins with our narrator (OP) reflecting on their 50th birthday gifts - a mix of liquor, toys/Lego, and a new planer. These gifts, while eclectic, perfectly encapsulate their personality and interests.

However, the joy of receiving these gifts is soon overshadowed by their parents' criticism, particularly about the toys. OP’s mom in particular, expressed disappointment over OP’s preference for keeping the toys unopened and not sharing them with the younger kids at the party.

This situation ignites a deeper conversation about the past. OP recalls a childhood when their toys were given away by their parents without consent, leaving deep emotional scars.

One particularly painful memory dates back 44 years on a beautiful Christmas day. Their parents, having forgotten to buy a gift for someone else, rewrapped one of OP’s just-opened presents and gave it away. Sadly, this pattern of taking away their toys and giving it away continued throughout their childhood.

Now 50, OP’s mother attempts to repeat the same act by taking away their X-Wing set to give it to the grandchildren. But this time, OP confronts their mother, leading to a heated exchange. In the end, OP’s parents are left embarrassed, and the family is divided.

This story is not just about toys or a birthday party; it's a reminder of how childhood experiences shape our adult lives and relationships. It raises questions about parental boundaries, respect for personal belongings, and the long-lasting impact of childhood trauma.

OP’s dilemma, while unique in its details, resonates with anyone who has struggled with setting boundaries with family and the challenge of maintaining one's own identity amidst long-standing family expectations.