15 People Speak About How You Can Tell If Someone Is Attracted To You

Love is hard, but interesting...

Damjan

• Published in Interesting
• September 11, 2021

Some people find it hard to distinguish if the person they are interested in likes them too, or they are just friendly. Who are we kidding – most of us can’t tell those things apart.

Well, to help us out, people who have crushes gave us clues on what to look for. When a question “What screams - I have a crush on you?” emerged on AskReddit, people responded, and we have selected some of the best answers.

Some of them are obvious, and you would have to be oblivious not to notice… But that is the beauty of love…

1. Getting up early...

“Being in college and getting up at 7am to have breakfast with her when you have no classes at all that day.

Edit: i despise mornings with a passion.”

2. Doodles...

“Giving them a drawing u did of them.”

3. I just called to say..

“Drunk calling/texting, next day call/text to apologize for the night before because they were drunk…”

4. Just hanging around.

“They make an effort to be around you when it’s usually not naturally occurring. They share things they find funny, exciting, and personal they don’t with others.

Edit: to help clarify things. https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw”

5. To see if they fit....

“Putting their palm up against yours to compare hand sizes.”

6. Goodbye, sleep....

“You stay up talking to them multiple nights in a row and fuck up your entire sleep schedule

Source: am going thru it rn.”

7. Just a peek.

“Typically only others can see it, but when they look at you every chance they get when you aren’t looking lol”

8. That is obvious…

“Laughing the loudest at their jokes, using their name a lot, always looking at them, comments on every Facebook status, likes on Instagram.”

9. Accidental tweets....

“Accidentally tweeting your crush’s name at 2:00 am. I mean, you meant to search it, but it’s late at night, dammit, and you want to make sure they don’t have a boyfriend (even though you’re too chickenshit to ask them out).”

10. Why???

“I once spotted my crush with her back to me at the other end of a lobby so I rushed over and kinda play kicked her leg, no idea why, but accidentally kinda kicked her leg for real.”

11. Not that funny....

“If they laugh at everything you say, there’s a good chance they’re crushing on you.”

12. And how are we?

“Boy: How are you?

Girl: I’m good, how are you?

Boy: I’m good, how are you?”

13. This is true....

“I think i actually read this on reddit ages ago, but after hearing a funny joke and laughing, people tend to look toward the ones they admire/feel close to, to gauge their reaction. It’s not exclusive to crushes but its very telling.”

14. Say my name.....

“I used to have a crush on a girl whom I nicknamed “Girl”. Everyone else called her Girl because of me. One day without realizing it I started using her real name. Everyone else caught on instantly except for her. It was awkward.”

15. Happy to see you....

“They’re happier to see you specifically, even though they can barely hold a conversation with you.”

Damjan