Young Man Wants A Full Refund Or A Replacement Dog After Returning A Puppy To A Breeder Due To His Emotional Instability

He doesn't understand it is not a toy you can replace as you feel

Damjan
Young Man Wants A Full Refund Or A Replacement Dog After Returning A Puppy To A Breeder Due To His Emotional Instability

OP (19M) adopted a puppy a year ago next month in an effort to have a friend that was just his. His family thought it was a good idea since he was going through a hard time, and he agreed.

He reached out to a breeder who had puppies half off due to an accident with one of the babysitters. OP adopted a puppy for $600, and it was love at first sight. However, he had to return the dog the next day due to a breakdown.

The breeder told OP that he would get his full refund once the puppy was rehomed. Months passed, and OP texted the breeder asking if the puppy had been rehomed.

She said yes, but due to the nonrefundable $200 fee, he would only get $400 back since the $200 went to vet bills and quarantine after the puppy was returned. OP said it was fine.

However, he never got a check in the mail. The breeder said she sent a $200 check a while ago, and she would resend one.

OP never got that check, so last night, he told her he still had yet to receive the check and asked if he was still getting his $400 back. She said no.

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OP asks:

OP asks:Reddit

OP (19M) adopted a puppy a year ago next month in an effort to have a friend that was just his. His family thought it was a good idea since he was going through a hard time, and he agreed.

OP (19M) adopted a puppy a year ago next month in an effort to have a friend that was just his. His family thought it was a good idea since he was going through a hard time, and he agreed.Reddit

He reached out to a breeder who had puppies half off due to an accident with one of the babysitters. OP adopted a puppy for $600, and it was love at first sight

He reached out to a breeder who had puppies half off due to an accident with one of the babysitters. OP adopted a puppy for $600, and it was love at first sightReddit

However, he had to return the dog the next day due to a breakdown. The breeder told OP that he would get his full refund once the puppy was rehomed.

However, he had to return the dog the next day due to a breakdown.  The breeder told OP that he would get his full refund once the puppy was rehomed.Reddit

However, he never got a check in the mail. The breeder said she sent a $200 check a while ago, and she would resend one.

However, he never got a check in the mail. The breeder said she sent a $200 check a while ago, and she would resend one.Reddit

OP never got that check, so last night, he told her he still had yet to receive the check and asked if he was still getting his $400 back. She said no.

OP never got that check, so last night, he told her he still had yet to receive the check and asked if he was still getting his $400 back. She said no.Reddit

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:Reddit

Sounds like it:

Sounds like it:Reddit

Competent breeders don't have "accidents"

Competent breeders don't have Reddit

OP bought the dog. it is not an adoption

OP bought the dog. it is not an adoptionReddit

Lesson learned?

Lesson learned?Reddit

Purchasing a dog on a whim and immediately looking to have another is not responsible pet ownership

Purchasing a dog on a whim and immediately looking to have another is not responsible pet ownershipReddit

Always have things in writing...

Always have things in writing...Reddit

This is also true:

This is also true:Reddit

Adopt, don't shop

Adopt, don't shopReddit

Getting a pet is a big decision that should not be taken lightly. While having a dog can bring joy and companionship, it is important to consider whether you have the time, money, and resources to care for a pet properly.

A dog requires regular attention and care, and it can be expensive to feed, house, and provide medical care. Finally, it is important to remember that buying an animal on a whim is always a bad idea.

Animals are living beings, and they should be treated with respect. If you are not sure that you can provide for the needs of a pet, it is best to wait until you are ready to make an informed decision.

Damjan