Australia’s Top Escort Reveals The Unexpected Reasons Why Married Men Cheat
In a candid look behind the scenes of marital infidelity, Samantha X, known as “Australia’s most expensive escort,” sheds light on why some married men seek out an escort instead of remaining faithful to their wives.
Samantha, who left her career as a journalist in her late 30s to become a high-profile escort, reveals that many men’s motives go beyond mere physical attraction. After spending a decade in the industry and charging a premium for her services, Samantha encountered clients from all walks of life, each with unique reasons for seeking her companionship.
Her findings challenge stereotypes and reveal a side to male vulnerability rarely discussed.
Through her two books and an escort agency for mature women, Samantha shared her insights with Daily Mail Australia. She explains that three main reasons drive married men to cheat: a need for emotional connection, a desire for intimacy, and feelings of betrayal.
“The top reason,” she shares, “was connection. Men would ask for the ‘girlfriend experience,’ which meant they needed someone to listen and understand without judgment.” This longing for connection is a reason men feel they cannot be open at home, fearing they’ll appear weak.
They admit they prefer an escort’s impartiality over the potential judgment from a counselor.
Emotional Vulnerability and the Need for Connection
For many of Samantha’s clients, emotional connection is a primary driver. According to her, men expressed that they felt insecure about being vulnerable with their partners.
shurkin_son / Freepik"They worry about appearing weak," she says, “so they come to me for comfort and a safe space to open up.”
When asked why they didn’t seek therapy, their answer was consistent: they wanted understanding without judgment.
Amanda GoffIntimacy Without Rejection
Another significant reason men sought her services was to experience intimacy without the fear of rejection. Samantha explains that many men feel rejected in their attempts to rekindle intimacy with their partners.
Amanda Goff“They told me they miss foreplay, not just for themselves but also for their partners.”
They craved an environment where they felt wanted, which they found in a paid encounter, where rejection wasn’t a factor.
Amanda GoffRevenge and Coping with Betrayal
Finally, Samantha reveals that some men turn to escorts as a form of revenge. In cases where they’d been cheated on, they sought a way to restore their bruised egos. Samantha describes men who shared their pain over infidelities by their spouses.
While women might overlook an indiscretion, she says, “men often struggle to move on, and their egos demand a response.”
Through her unique perspective, Samantha X emphasizes that cheating isn’t always about falling out of love. Many of her clients shared that they had no intentions of leaving their wives but were seeking an outlet they couldn’t find at home.
Amanda GoffHere's what some people had to say...
"That doesn't mean you stop living."
Eh?
It is, unfortunately.
Some people just aren't that lucky.
Right!
In the end, Samantha’s insights show that men’s motivations aren’t as straightforward as they seem—some crave connection, others revenge, and a few just miss the foreplay. Perhaps it’s true: relationships are complicated, and sometimes, a little mystery keeps everyone guessing—even the “perfect” partner.
