Redditor's Night Out With Friends Takes A Turn - Unexpected Guest Disrupts Seating Plans, Sending Him Home

This situation goes to show that things like this should be discussed prior to going to the event.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• October 10, 2023

When it comes to Reddit posts there are always so many different opinions and perspectives that get left on those posts. That's part of the reason that we love looking into these posts and overall just giving you insight into the situations so that you can take a look into what your opinion might be on the situation.

So with this being said, we are diving into a situation that was posted by someone who wants to know if they are in the wrong for leaving their group event and making a scene. They had a reservation for 6 people but when someone's boyfriend randomly shows up, that puts them as a party of 7.

Instead of them asking the boyfriend to leave they asked OP to leave instead. They later give us some more insight into the situation and whether or not they were in the wrong because of them being the only single person there.

This means that the reasoning might be that everyone was a couple except OP and that might be why they were asked to leave instead. However, it's rude to ask someone to leave a group event like that especially if they showed up on time and were part of the original group.

Let's look into the situation and see what people had to say.

OP's post explains things pretty well so we can understand what the situation is here.

This is where they explain that the reservation wasn't able to be filled because of the extra person.

This is where they explain that the person took it upon themselves to tell OP to leave.

It seems to have made everyone feel a bit awkward though.

This is when some people reached out and said they felt bad for what was going on.

OP wants to know if they are wrong for how they reacted even though the situation seemed to be awkward.

Let's see what everyone thought the answer to this was.

Here's the TLDR for everyone who didn't want to read the whole thing.

Then there were a few edits added to explain the situation in depth and what's going on.

OP kept it coming with updates to let us know how things are going.

Some people did end up apologizing to OP though for the situation.

I would have honestly taken it personally as well though.

OP did us a favor by answering ALL of the questions.

They were concerned about the awkward silence.

OP obviously didn't time the silence but said it was still awkward.

It turns out thst everyone was upset that OP even posted this though.

They also addressed the "group leader" concern.

This is true though sometimes in friend groups so we get it.

OP was the one that walked out after being told they should leave.

Some people still felt like OP shouldn't have called her names though.

OP explains their mindset in the situation and how they wanted to just walk away.

This is when people came to the comments to let OP know they weren't in the wrong but need new friends.

This is exactly how most of us feel.

I would have done the same too - with the language. Seems like crappy friends.

We have to agree with this.

I wouldn't consider them friends either honestly.

OP came back for some advice and a few people delivered.

We can all agree that they are not your friends.

I would've called them out worse than OP did.

Yep this is a mental note to take.

The 7th person should have just left in this situation since they caused the issue.

This is exactly what we are all thinking too.

Yep this is the best way to approach the situation because the 7th person wasn't on the reservation.

So many people had tons to say about this situation because it's clear OP wasn't necessarily wrong and the 7th person should have left. However, it's pretty clear that these people aren't really OP's friends if they reacted this way.

Daphnie