Girl Is Worried That Her Boyfriend Will Become Abusive And Wants To Leave Him Before He Does

We always say that if you're worried about it then just to pull the plug.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• November 9, 2023

Today's Reddit post that we're looking at is actually from the relationship advice thread, which is one that we often go through. This thread gets so many posts on it because, ultimately, people in relationships need a lot of advice.

This thread is the perfect place to go if you are looking to get advice from people who are unbiased and just overall do not have any ties to you at all. With this being said, today's post was submitted by a girl who wants advice on her relationship because she's worried that he may become abusive.

Now, you can already imagine what people are telling her in the comments, and it's totally in the right direction here. The things that OP goes into in the post itself are terrible, and you can tell how much of an abusive person she is with, even if he hasn't really physically harmed her yet.

This is such a sad post, but people were extremely supportive in the comments and told it to her straight. So, if you're interested in looking into this post and seeing all of the best comments on it as well, then keep on reading as we dive in and give you all the details on it.

OP's post is actually pretty short and just goes into the details we need in order to understand the situation and where she's coming from in terms of how she feels about what he's doing.

This is the bets comment because she really needs to understand that this is indeed already an abusive relationship and she needs to get out before it gets worse.

People gave some very great advice in the comments section and we hope that OP acted fast and really got out of here because it's just not okay.

He is absolutely manipulating her and he will continue to if she doesn't stand up for herself and stay standing up for herself.

Yep, this is something she needs to understand too that he's physically stopping her from leaving so yeah, that would be physically abusive for the most part.

It's very clear that people came to the comments with empathy and advice because people shared their own stories and truly helped her to not make the same mistakes they did.

He knows exactly what he's doing and I think that's why OP isn't so surprised every time but really he's not as "upset" as he seems like he is.

Basically everyone is telling her that she needs to do any and everything to get out of that relationship and fast.

It's extremely abusive and byt eh way things are going, he seems to be able to get much much worse.

This guy is a walking red flag and it's unfortunate that OP even has to deal with this much less try to find a way out.

It's very clear that everyone here is on the same page about this and feels like OP's boyfriend is already abusive. He seems to be a hothead and just very toxic overall, but he's also smart by knowing exactly how he's manipulating her.

She needs to get out fast.

Daphnie