Woman Gets Tattoo She Knew Fully Well Her Husband Wouldn't Like, Regrets Her Decision Later On

"I now hate it, and want to undo it because I hate that he's mad at me"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• May 7, 2023

Tattoos have various meanings for various individuals. Some individuals use tattoos as a means of bringing their imaginations to life while some use it as a means of self-expression.

These people see their tattoos as a visible manifestation of their deepest wishes. Some people use tattoos as a platform to express themselves to the outside world.

They want everyone to understand the message they are conveying with their bodies, which they employ as a canvas. The desire to boost one's self-esteem is among the most often mentioned motives for getting a tattoo.

When a person feels good about themselves, they are more likely to want to use their physical appearance to express themselves, and tattoos are a common means of doing so. We aren't sure why the OP of today's story loves getting tattoos, but her boyfriend isn't a fan of it.

A few years after they got married and had their first child, the OP decided she wanted a light blue tattoo on her inner wrist to represent her and her baby. Her husband was huffy about this but didn't say why.

Three years later, the OP wanted another small one, and that's when her husband finally told her that he didn't like tattoos. There weren't any specific reasons given, but he said he didn't like them.

Keep scrolling to find out if the OP still has the tattoos or not. 

The Headline

The OP wanted a light blue tattoo on her inner wrist to represent her and her baby

The OP loves her tat so much but her husband got super pissed on seeing it

Let's head into the comments and see what other Redditors have to say regarding the story

The OP could do with some couples counseling

He tried being supportive but the OP got a bigger one

The OP's husband hasn't communicated to her clearly

It's the OP's body after all

It shows the little respect the OP has for her husband

The OP was dishonest or misleading about her plans

Everyone has preferences

This Redditor thinks this might ruin the OP's marriage

OP's husband said he doesn't find them appealing

The OP's not wrong for getting a tattoo

He is allowed to have a preference

It means you are not compatible

It's your body and it's his feelings too

You are sending a strong message to your partner

He is allowed to feel different towards the OP

Accept the OP or leave

OP's husband said he does not find the tattoos attractive

As simple as it can be

The OP's husband is allowed his opinion. And many Redditors agreed that it does matter what he's comfortable with in terms of the actual relationship.

He has no right to stop the OP from getting a tattoo, but he has every right not to like it. The OP was declared not the AH, and you can share this story with your loved ones to get their opinions too.

Maryjane