Boyfriend Sneezed On His Girlfriend's Favorite Towel To Punish Her For Not Waking Him Up After He Slept Through His Multiple Alarms

She was woken by his first alarm which he snoozed before going back to sleep

Chelsi

• Published in Interesting
• October 25, 2023

Reddit users warned a 29-year-old woman about the alarming behavior her 35-year-old boyfriend recently displayed. OP and her boyfriend have been living together for two months.

He moved in with her when he landed an engineering job. OP is a remote worker with a flexible schedule, while her boyfriend needs to clock in at 8 a.m.

He has two alarms set 10 minutes apart. He snoozes his alarms most times, and OP has to wake him up so he would not be late.

He gets mad when OP wakes him up past 7:30 a.m. He yells, "Why didn't you wake me up sooner?"

One morning, OP was woken by her boyfriend's first alarm. He snoozed the alarm as usual and went back to sleep.

He typically gets out of bed after his 7:10 alarms anyway, so OP wasn't bothered by it. Her boyfriend turned off his second alarm that morning and slept.

OP was on her phone replying to her clients and didn't notice the time. She glanced at her boyfriend from time to time.

He opened his eyes at her, smiled, nodded, and then closed his eyes again. It was 7:37 a.m. when OP finally noticed the clock.

She asked her boyfriend if he knew what time it was. He guessed it was 25 minutes past seven and was shocked when he checked his phone.

He rushed to the bathroom and slammed the door. He picked a fight with OP as he was getting dressed.

He told her she was a jerk for not telling him to get up earlier. He said it was her fault that he was going to work late without even brushing his teeth.

OP said she didn't mean to piss him off, but it also wasn't her responsibility to keep him punctual.

He said it was an a**hole move not to help when she had the chance to do so.

OP understands that couples help each other out, but she still didn't think she did anything wrong. Her boyfriend decided to teach her a lesson.

He blew his nose on her favorite towel before he left and said, "You have that white towel in the bathroom to make it look pretty, right?" OP thinks she should just wake him up since she's an early riser.

He's trying to teach OP to get in line or she will be punished. It's already working.

The last time we checked, OP's boyfriend is 35 years old. He is older than her.

OP signed up to be someone's girlfriend, not someone's mom

A disgusting child at that

They've been living together for two months and he raged on her several times for not waking him up early enough. Throw the entire man away.

Helping each other out is to be expected in a relationship. Dependency on this level is just a burden.

If OP sees a future with this guy, then she needs to draw a definitive line. What he did was unacceptable. If he behaves similarly, their relationship is done.

Others think he doesn't deserve a second chance. This wasn't the first time he yelled at OP for something that wasn't her fault or responsibility.

OP should think long and hard if this is the kind of relationship she wants for herself

This is a 35-year-old man trying to control his younger girlfriend

He is training OP to be responsible for everything. If something goes wrong in his life, he will blame and punish OP.

Unfortunately, OP hasn't posted any updates as of this writing. She didn't reply to any comments asking her questions or giving her advice.

We can only hope that the Reddit comments pointed her in the right direction. Her boyfriend didn't seem like he brought anything positive into her life.

Chelsi