Boyfriend Sneezed On His Girlfriend's Favorite Towel To Punish Her For Not Waking Him Up After He Slept Through His Multiple Alarms
Reddit users warned a 29-year-old woman about the alarming behavior her 35-year-old boyfriend recently displayed. OP and her boyfriend have been living together for two months.
He moved in with her when he landed an engineering job. OP is a remote worker with a flexible schedule, while her boyfriend needs to clock in at 8 a.m.
He has two alarms set 10 minutes apart. He snoozes his alarms most times, and OP has to wake him up so he would not be late.
He gets mad when OP wakes him up past 7:30 a.m. He yells, "Why didn't you wake me up sooner?"
One morning, OP was woken by her boyfriend's first alarm. He snoozed the alarm as usual and went back to sleep.
He typically gets out of bed after his 7:10 alarms anyway, so OP wasn't bothered by it. Her boyfriend turned off his second alarm that morning and slept.
OP was on her phone replying to her clients and didn't notice the time. She glanced at her boyfriend from time to time.
He opened his eyes at her, smiled, nodded, and then closed his eyes again. It was 7:37 a.m. when OP finally noticed the clock.
She asked her boyfriend if he knew what time it was. He guessed it was 25 minutes past seven and was shocked when he checked his phone.
He rushed to the bathroom and slammed the door. He picked a fight with OP as he was getting dressed.
He told her she was a jerk for not telling him to get up earlier. He said it was her fault that he was going to work late without even brushing his teeth.
u/Play_TachiOP said she didn't mean to piss him off, but it also wasn't her responsibility to keep him punctual.
u/Play_TachiHe said it was an a**hole move not to help when she had the chance to do so.
u/Play_TachiOP understands that couples help each other out, but she still didn't think she did anything wrong. Her boyfriend decided to teach her a lesson.
u/Play_TachiHe blew his nose on her favorite towel before he left and said, "You have that white towel in the bathroom to make it look pretty, right?" OP thinks she should just wake him up since she's an early riser.
u/Play_TachiHe's trying to teach OP to get in line or she will be punished. It's already working.
squirrelsareevil2479
The last time we checked, OP's boyfriend is 35 years old. He is older than her.
Tough_Crazy_8362
OP signed up to be someone's girlfriend, not someone's mom
LobsterLovingLlama, poonjabbingninja
A disgusting child at that
effing_usernames2_
They've been living together for two months and he raged on her several times for not waking him up early enough. Throw the entire man away.
DatabaseMoney3435
Helping each other out is to be expected in a relationship. Dependency on this level is just a burden.
paradisetossed7
If OP sees a future with this guy, then she needs to draw a definitive line. What he did was unacceptable. If he behaves similarly, their relationship is done.
Pollywog08
Others think he doesn't deserve a second chance. This wasn't the first time he yelled at OP for something that wasn't her fault or responsibility.
waterfountain_bidet
OP should think long and hard if this is the kind of relationship she wants for herself
Electrical_Page_1136
This is a 35-year-old man trying to control his younger girlfriend
zinasbear
He is training OP to be responsible for everything. If something goes wrong in his life, he will blame and punish OP.
aPawMeowNyation
Unfortunately, OP hasn't posted any updates as of this writing. She didn't reply to any comments asking her questions or giving her advice.
We can only hope that the Reddit comments pointed her in the right direction. Her boyfriend didn't seem like he brought anything positive into her life.
