Groundbreaking Research Shatters Everything We Thought We Knew About Gen Z's S*xuality And Relationships

Surprisingly, Gen Z holds traditional values that mirror those of the older generation.

Jesse

• Published in News
• September 9, 2024

In a world where casual dating apps and "swipe-right" culture dominate, you might assume that the younger generation is steering clear of tradition. But here’s the surprising twist—Gen Z is craving something much more old-school than we thought: commitment.

A new study by the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana and dating app Feeld reveals that this tech-savvy generation, known for its open-mindedness and digital fluency, is turning to long-term, monogamous relationships.

It’s a trend that seems to mirror the values of previous generations. This challenges the notion that Gen Z is all about fleeting romances and instant gratification.

The study, which surveyed over 3,310 Feeld users from different countries and se*ual orientations, found that a staggering 81% of Gen Z participants desire a monogamous relationship, with nearly half (44%) thinking about it often.

Surprisingly, Gen Z's yearning for stability even surpasses older generations. Among participants from earlier generations, only 70% preferred one-on-one commitment, and a mere 25% pondered it frequently.

This shift suggests that despite evolving attitudes towards public displays of affection (PDA) and alternative relationships, Gen Z’s hearts seem to beat for something more traditional.

Whether it's a response to the uncertainties of modern life or a redefinition of what love looks like today, one thing is clear: Gen Z wants more than just a fling—they’re seeking genuine connection and, perhaps, a love that stands the test of time.

It turns out Gen Z is craving something unexpected—good old-fashioned, monogamous relationships

In a report titled "The State of Dating: How Gen Z is Redefining S*xuality and Relationships," researchers uncovered a surprising trend: younger people are showing an “unexpected affinity for monogamy.”

Dr. Justin Lehmiller, the study’s lead author, went deeper into the findings, explaining: "It is well documented that Gen Z is having less s*x, fewer partners, and fewer relationships than generations that came before."

These insights paint a picture of a generation that’s redefining romance in ways no one saw coming, favoring depth over casual connections.

There’s something undeniably charming about traditional relationships

As the complexities of modern dating grow, there's a noticeable shift happening. "At the same time, a current trend is the romanticization of traditional relationships and roles," Dr. Lehmiller pointed out.

"There is a certain appeal to 'how things used to be' in the sense that they just seemed simpler," he said, tapping into a collective nostalgia for a time when love seemed more straightforward.

"As dating has moved into the digital world, it has only become more complex," he continued. "It is possible that older adults have simply had more practice with monogamy and found that it is not for them or have a craving for se*ual newness."

It's no news that terms like "situation-ships" and "we're still in the talking phase" have become the norm. So, it’s no surprise that Gen Z, tired of the ambiguity, is gravitating toward something more traditional.

PDA is also becoming more accepted.

According to Cosmopolitan, Gen Z seems to be giving PDA a fresh spin—for example, love letters or, in their own words, “simping.” What was once considered a bit awkward is now being embraced with confidence by younger adults, who no longer find it embarrassing.

One woman, Maya, shared her thoughts with the magazine: "I’ve found myself embracing PDA more and more with my boyfriend."

She went on to say, "I think doing romantic and ‘cringey’ things that you wouldn’t do with anyone else adds a special element to the relationship that separates it from the other relationships in your life."

It’s interesting to see the younger generation reaching back for the comfort of traditions. Perhaps, in seeking genuine connections, they’re finding that some of the "old ways" still hold a timeless charm.

After all, love, in its purest form, never goes out of style. And maybe, just maybe, what we’re all really looking for is something real, something that lasts.

Jesse