Man Feels Betrayed After Discovering That He Was Not Invited To Fiance's Sister's Wedding After Everything He Did For Her

"The 'no plus 1’s' only applied to me."

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• May 25, 2023

It's said that people tend to attack you for your change in attitude but won't check if they've done something wrong to warrant the change. It really hurts when all you've done is be there for someone, only for them to pay you back in the most unexpected way.

Today's story was brought to the AITA subreddit community by a pained 27-year-old Redditor named AgentRamandu. The OP is getting married to his fiancée soon, and they've started a guest list.

OP's fiance comes from a big family, and he is an only child. Both of them are close with one of the sisters in particular and often go to visit her.

This sister has a fiancé, and because she is pregnant, she has a shotgun wedding before the baby arrives in order to keep with their traditional values and appease familial, religious desires. Guess what? They said it was a small wedding, so no plus ones, only for the OP to find out that it was just him that was excluded from the wedding.

The OP stated that he had done a lot for her sister and soon-to-be husband. He has even gone as far as to stop everything he was doing to help his fiance's sister during a health scare while she was pregnant.

And now, this is how she wants to say thank you to him. Read the entire story for yourself below.

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They are close with one of her sisters in particular, and often went to visit her

The OP once helped his fiance's sister during a health scare while she was pregnant

“It’s okay, just drop me off at my sisters and we will get a ride over.”

Inside was a party of her siblings, and their friends and significant others all dressed up

Maybe the OP did something to upset them which is why he wasn’t invited

The Reddit thread got over 9K upvoted and more than 2K comments in only two days of being posted and here are some of the top replies

This Redditor felt the betrayal while reading through the post

The OP's fiancee knew all along

The OP's fiancee knows why he wasn't invited

For this redditor, this is a huge red flag

The OP needs to know why he was not invited in the first place

This behavior has gone past the red flag zone

The problem here is with the OP's fiancee

The OP had had a peep of what is lurking behind the honeymoon stage

The OP has this additional information to add

OP's fiance is just there shrugging her shoulders

It doesn't seem like she tried to find out why

Why is it a mystery that this even happened?

The most awkward walking into the room ever

This is a massive red flag, according to this redditor

For this redditor, the OP should dump his fiancee ASAP

What happened to the OP would hurt anyone in his shoes and many would honestly reconsider the marriage. The least they could do was be honest with the OP about him not being invited.

Not only were they being cruel but they lied and we're being sneaky about it. The OP was declared not the AH and I couldn't agree more. Drop your thoughts about this story below.

Maryjane