Girl Goes To Her Ex's Wedding Instead Of Her Girlfriend's Graduation
We're back again today with yet another awesome Reddit post from the AITA Thread that we often take a look into. These posts are submitted by people who are looking for unbiased advice and opinions on people for whatever situation they are looking into.
We are definitely going to love looking into this situation because people had a lot to say in the comments, and we definitely can understand why. With this being said, we are going to dive into this post that was submitted by a woman who wants to know if she's wrong for going to her ex's wedding instead of her girlfriend's graduation.
Basically, OP's ex is also her best friend, and she's the maid of honor at the wedding, but obviously, her current girlfriend is pretty upset about this. So OP wants to know if she's in the wrong for choosing her ex's wedding over the graduation because that is her best friend.
If you're interested in knowing more about this situation and what people had to say in the comments section below, then keep on reading as we dive in and take a look at the full post and what the best comments were as well.
OP gives a bit of a backstory on her and her ex, but then explains why she chose to go to the wedding over the graduation.
u/Express-Manner1738OP says they were very open but that this situation obviously caused a huge argument.
u/Express-Manner1738This is when everything happened and her girlfriend was not okay with OP going on the trip for the wedding.
u/Express-Manner1738People quickly came to the comments and let OP know that they were indeed TA for the decision that they made.
MoogOfTheWispOP actually responded to the comment below and had a little conversation about the decision that she made here.
Express-Manner1738People assumed that the girlfriend probably wouldn't be there when she got back because she made her choice very clear.
Aggressive-Mind-2085That's an important piece that many people missed because she seemed surprised that she wasn't aware of her going to the wedding.
SneakySneakySquirrelThis seems like there are a lot of other possible issues going on that aren't even related to this. Communication is lacking.
mathwhilehigh1
It's important to prioritize those that matter and this was obviously a huge deal for her girlfriend and a chance to prove her love.
devi;anmilk
It definitely seems like everyone thinks OP is in the wrong for this and that the girlfriend will realize where she stands.
TopAd7154
This is absolutely her choosing an ex over a partner now and we understand the level of friendship here but she's still and ex and that does matter.
stenia009
People were a bit confused and conflicted about OP saying that their ex was more like a sister or bestfriend, which clearly can't be that true if they dated.
s-nicolexo
This could very well be the issue here and she needs to realize what she wants.
theoisthegame
We really feel like everyone in the comments is right, and OP is most definitely wrong. I can't imagine how the girlfriend feels, but many people in the comments agree with the girlfriend's feelings on being neglected and put last.
What do you think about this situation?
