Woman Called Out Her Fiance Online For Refusing To Quench Her Sexual Urges, Redditors Dissect The Issue Whilst Roasting Her

When someone makes an offer or a request of people, the assertive ones consider whether they find the request or offer to be reasonable or acceptable. They wait until they completely comprehend what is being asked of them and whether or not they want to or can do it before committing themselves to a "yes" or "no" response.

When they respond "no" to a request, they do so firmly, plainly, and simply, frequently by only using the word "no" by itself. People who feel guilty when they want or need to say "no" frequently do it with remorse or with elaborate justifications or explanations that give the impression that they believe what they are doing is inappropriate or improper.

This might sometimes encourage the person making the request to exert pressure in an effort to acquire the "yes" they want until they are successful. Many times, when they perceive a "no" as ambivalent, people may ask for—or even demand—an explanation.

In these awkward situations, it's probably better to respond with "because that's my answer" or "because that's what I think is best for me." The best way to view saying "no" is as an honorable answer—something you are entitled to, even if it offends someone else.

You have to learn to tolerate no as an answer, but the lady in the post below took it as an offence.