Dog Owners Discuss the Real Deal Behind Dogs Facing Away From Their Owners: It All Boils Down to Trust
Humans and dogs may speak different languages, but for some reason, we understand them, and they understand us.
Take, for instance, when a person turns their back on someone—it's often seen as a sign of disinterest or even rudeness. But when your furry friend does the same, it's a whole different story, filled with warmth and trust.
When your pup turns its back to you, you can bet they're saying, "Hey, friend! I trust you completely." According to Dr. John Gottman, a renowned marriage researcher, "When a dog shows its back, it is expressing vulnerability, which is a profound sign of trust." It's their way of saying, "I feel safe with you."
But that isn't its only meaning. Sometimes, that cute back-turning move might come with a little selfish motive, just like us humans with our unreachable itches.
Your dog might be saying, "Hey, can you help me out with this itch I just can't reach?" It's their subtle way of politely asking for a scratch in that one elusive spot.
After all those rolls in the grass and wiggles on the floor, they're still stuck, and they're trusting you to scratch that itch away. Pet owners have also witnessed this habit in their dogs, as noted by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a parenting expert, who emphasizes that "dogs communicate their needs in ways that reflect their trust in us."
Let's take a look at their responses to this question:
Why does my dog face away from me when she sits near me?
It's either they're being submissive or they're guarding you.
This is a very common behavior of dogs associated with something called ‘submissive urination,’ which is basically when an animal urinates when it is threatened or nervous. A dog sitting with its back to you is a submissive behavior that shows it is unsure of you and scared.
I would recommend petting her and talking to her in a low tone of voice to help her feel more comfortable. Dogs are social animals, so you should also try to spend more time with her to help her get accustomed to you.
The second reason is that dogs will sit facing away because they think that way, they’re guarding you. If facing you, the dog figures that it can’t see what’s going on behind you.
It believes that this is the best way to protect you from danger. This is a very smart thing for a dog to do because dogs are very good at picking up danger before you humans know about it.
You're part of the pack. In other words, you are family.
There are multiple instinctive reasons, but it basically boils down to these two. First, she’s showing you that she trusts you implicitly by leaving her vulnerable areas exposed to you.
She knows you won’t attack her.
Secondly, because she loves you and considers you her pack or family, she’s sitting in the best possible defensive position. She wants to protect you.
If she bumps you with her rear end or just rests it against you, you should take it as a sign of immense comfort and affection.
There are steps you can take to train her to sit the way you want her to, but you’ll have to go to someone a little better at training than I am.
Turning their back can also be a sign that the doggo just wants some love.
Before my dog passed away, Gator would always sit with his back towards me right in front of me on the couch.
He liked me rubbing his back and petting him, and he would look up wanting kisses. So I think it’s an expression of affection from your dog, and they want to be petted and loved!
They're relaxed in your presence.
When a dog faces away while sitting near you, it may indicate relaxation and trust. Dogs expose vulnerable areas, like their back, when they feel secure in their environment.
Enjoy this as a positive sign of your dog's comfort and confidence in your presence. For more information on interpreting canine behavior, explore our Quora Space on understanding your dog's body language.
Dogs don't see you as a threat.
Because you give her the self-confidence to be able to, put simply.
Dogs don't turn their back on anything they consider to be a threat, you see. Unless it's to run away from the threat itself.
Guard mode: On.
Guarding you.
A dog does not necessarily need to see you to feel the togetherness, except when getting ready for a walk or treat time.
When she sits with you, she feels your warmth and touch and smells your scent. But she is on full alert—always vigilant.
The only exception is when on the bed. Then the dog wants to be face to face or just snuggle. At bedtime, the pup goes Off Duty! LOL
Dogs simply won't do this if they don't trust you. You and your pet have bonded long enough that it is confident you won't do anything perceived as a threat.
The simple act of a dog turning its back becomes a profound testament to trust. In a way, they're telling us that your bond with them is deep enough that they can relax in your presence.
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