Redditor Insists On Equal Split For Utility Bills, Disregards Roommate's Absence Stemming From Health Concerns
In the hustle and bustle of life, finding the right roommate can be a challenge. But sometimes, even the most seemingly perfect living arrangements can be disrupted by unexpected circumstances.
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Such is the case for our narrator (Original Poster), who finds herself caught in a quandary with her roommate.
Living in a cozy two-story apartment, the two roommates have shared a harmonious space until now. Their peaceful coexistence, however, is about to be disrupted by personal and health reasons affecting the other lady.
Doctor appointments, situated an hour away, require her presence, leading her to contemplate spending more time at home. Eager to save money during this period of transition, she contemplates moving out or paying a reduced portion of utilities.
Finally, she suggests that OP should consider a lease transfer, allowing her to find a new roommate. However, OP's recent move from the east coast to the west coast has left her without an extensive network, making this proposition less feasible.
Reluctant to share a lease with a stranger, OP dismisses this idea. Instead, OP proposes an alternative plan: she will move out to a one-bedroom apartment if her roommate covers the difference in rent for moving four months earlier than planned.
This way, her roommate would save half the rent, and she (OP) would not be burdened with additional expenses. Unfortunately, her roommate declines to cover the full difference, leading them to decide to keep the lease as is.
The compromise includes her roommate's occasional presence and the storage of her belongings at the apartment.
However, one lingering issue remains. OP believes it's not fair that her roommate intends to stop contributing to the utilities simply because she will be spending more time at home.
Caught between empathy and financial burden, OP seeks a resolution that won't strain their relationship or her own budget.
Let's dig into the details
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A little background
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OP isn't prepared to pay more money monthly for something that isn’t her fault
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The summary of the whole story
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Important edit
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We gathered some comments from the Reddit community for your viewing pleasure:
"YTA for wanting her to pay an equal share of utilities while only living there a few days each month"
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"Life happens, and you both have to do your best, and I think she’s offering you a great option."
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"Nothing in your post matters really, what matters is what is in the roommate agreement"
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"Your points seem a tad selfish."
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"YTA. You should be grateful she’s giving you anything"
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As OP grapples with the challenging roommate situation, the scales of public opinion tip against her on Reddit. The online community seems to favor her roommate's proposed solution, viewing it as a fair compromise.
We do hope both ladies can find a compromise that suits both parties. Meanwhile, tell us who you're supporting in this squabble.