Teenager's Family Furious After She Didn't Name Her New Kitten “Carlos” After Her Recently Deceased Grandfather
“ They have now uninvited me to his funeral.”
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Family drama is the worst kind of drama because even if you try to escape it, it will always manage to find a way back to you. In any other scenario, you can either ignore the problem or try to stay as far away from it as possible.
Unless you completely cut your family off - something not everyone is ready to do - that problem will eventually pop up out of nowhere when you least expect it. This is why people will usually go above and beyond to make sure they have done right by their family members.
It can become quite toxic if you allow some family members to have a say in some things that don't really concern them. After they realize that they are permitted to alter some aspects of your life, they will try to do it more often and you could never know if their intentions are good or not.
A Redditor who goes by the username u/GoldenKitten467 made a post on the r/AmItheAhole subReddit where she explained how her family got extremely angry at her for naming her cat something other than her recently deceased grandfather's name. The Redditor got a lot of different reactions to their post, scroll down and check out the full Reddit story.
Here's the original post by Reddit user u/GoldenKitten467:
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeHere's the reason why OP thinks she might potentially be the a-hole:
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeHere's how the Reddit community reacted to u/GoldenKitten467's post:
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThis shouldn't even be an issue to start with. The family had a weird reaction.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeIt would be weird to name your cat after your recently deceased grandfather.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeWhat you decided to name your cat should normally not cause this much drama. This is ridiculous.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe family's reactions is totally extreme and blown out of proportions.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe family should not even be involved in this decision.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe whole family is not thinking straight. This is not normal behavior at all.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeIt's not something people typically do. And forcing someone else to do it is even worse.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe grandfather might not even be okay with naming a cat after him. He never requested it.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeOP shouldn't take any of the blame because she doesn't deserve it.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThis user even questioned the legitimacy of OP's story.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe kitten belongs to OP and she has the freedom to name it as she wishes.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe family would have a worse reaction to that.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeThe harassment that OP is going through is ridiculous.
Reddit: r/AmItheAholeOP's family is certainly one of a kind. This wouldn't even be an issue in any other family, but somehow, they decided to make a big deal out of it and blow it out of proportion. OP should not take any of the blame, she has the right to pick any name she wishes for her cat.
The fact that they banned her from her own grandfather's funeral proves how unreasonable they really are. If you enjoyed this story, make sure to check out similar content on our platform.