Lady Receives Cursive Texts From Her Best Friend Because She Wasn't There To Console Her Through Her Breakup, Refuses To Rebuild The Bond

All you had to do to break our ‘unbreakable’ bond”

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 29, 2023

When we argue or quarrel in a relationship, we usually say harmful things to each other. When we say harsh things in a heated moment, we don't think that we might be ruining the relationship as a whole.

We don't consider our partner's possible emotions. When you say harmful words to someone you love, the hurt might last a long time.

It always dawns on the angry one later, and by the time they gather their thoughts and start to see how they could have hurt their partner, it becomes too late. Then, you realise that a simple "sorry" just isn't enough sometimes.

For this reason, it is crucial to recognize the seriousness of the damage that derogatory comments can do to a relationship. The narrator of today's story once had a best friend, and they were neighbors for years.

They went to the same school, and that’s when they started connecting and going over to each other's houses. They both stopped talking for a long time after a huge argument.

Actually, a boy broke her friend's heart, and the OP wasn’t comforting her about it. This friend sent cursive messages to the OP despite knowing she was in a lake house and there was no connection.

The OP didn't want to let her parents know that they had this argument because they decided to keep it private. The friend's family was invited to the OP's family's cookout, where the OP had a fallout with her friend.

Read the entire story for yourself as you scroll down below.

And here's the headline

The problem is that they both stopped talking for a long time after a huge argument

OP didn’t try to reach out, but their family didn't know they had this argument, because they decided to keep it private

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

The action might make me the AH for not talking to her and kicked her out

We've gathered some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors for you to read through below

"If you behave and say hurtful things people won't want to be friends with you"

The OP should really talk to her parents about what happened and ask that they respect her choice

She came to talk and apologise and the OP refused to even hear her out

The friend wrongfully took her pain out on the OP and she is the AH for that

The OP acted Inconsiderately and brashly towards her family and others

There's a proverb that says, "Prevention is better than cure." Knowing how severely anger may damage one's relationship, OP's friends now has a strong incentive to refrain from saying hurtful things while she's angry.

When you treat someone harshly, you have to deal with the consequence that they may deem you a bad person and not want to be friends with you anymore. The OP was declared not the AH and that's a wrap.

Maryjane