Girl Doubtful About Going To Bachelorette Party Because She's Not Really Friends With The Bride And Has To Chip In Money

Getting invited on a bachelorette is a great thing but you can deny the invitation at your own desire.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• July 19, 2023

We're back again today with yet another Reddit post that we wanted to dive into from the AITA thread. This thread is commonly used for people who are looking to get unbiased opinions or advice from people that they don't know in real life.

Sometimes it's just best to get this kind of advice from people that you don't know at all. With this all being said, we're going to dive in and check out a post that was submitted by a woman who says she wants to refuse to attend the bachelorette party being thrown by someone she knows.

She says that the reason that she does not want to attend is because she feels like she doesn't know the person well enough to go to a bachelorette party and spend lots of money to attend. Ultimately this situation is something where she just wants some opinions on what people think to see if she's being dramatic and should just go.

If you're interested in hearing the full story and seeing what people had to say in the comments below as well, then keep on reading as we dive in and give you the full look at the post and some of the best comments as well.

OP starts off her post with explaining the situation and what the reason was for her not wanting to go to the bachelorette.

She admits that she hasn't been straightforward but explains that she feels that she is put in an awkward position.

People were a little conflicted in the comments but this one claimed that she was TA for this.

This also is a good reason too. Maybe just tell them that they can't afford it right now - that's something she can't argue with.

Ultimately we all just agree that she should just say no if that's what she's going to say anyway.

OP is probably just overthinking the situation because she really could just say she can't go and not even give any sort of explanation.

She really shouldn't be that worried about losing this "friendship" if it isn't even a friendship anyway.

Again it's just important to note that OP can say whatever she wants and she has a right to deny the trip just like anyone else would.

This is absolutely probably what's going on. She's using it as a way to have finances to enjoy a bachelorette that she wants.

There is no obligation to go at all so she shouldn't feel bad for saying no anyway.

It seems that everyone is pretty much on the same page with this situation so they seem to be voting the same way.

It seems like OP had a lot to say about this, but people in the comments really had some opinions on whether or not she made the right call. We hope that OP decides to tell her friend the real reason as to why she can't go or doesn't want to go.

What do you think about this situation?

Daphnie