Girl Tries To Say 'Hi' To Her Boyfriend, Gets Ignored For Being Annoying

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Filip

• Published in Interesting
• August 22, 2023

People intrinsically search for their other half. It's an innate type of behavior, and they can't fight it.

But once they find the other half, there come the other questions and dilemmas, such as: what to do, what to say, when to say it, how to express yourself without hurting the other party, whether you should call or wait to be called, and so on, and so on. It can be very exhausting.

But it's something everyone has to go through. It's how they get to know their partner and discover whether their search is over or they need to move on.

However, some behavior patterns are always the same, regardless of whether someone is in a relationship or not. It's not that rare that people enjoy being overcontrolling, and that's how they behave in a relationship, too.

Such people always want to know where their partner is, look for their every move, and listen carefully to every word, trying to decipher its secret meaning. But, sometimes, there is no hidden meaning and dark truth, and things are just as they are.

Of course, being careful is not bad, but that doesn't mean everyone is hiding some dark secret or doing something wrong. Those types of people condemn every attempt at a relationship to failure before it even begins because their overcontrolled behavior does not allow them to relax and just be who they are.

Recently, we came across a conversation between a girl and her boyfriend, and now we have a dilemma. We can't tell whether she's being annoying or overcontrolling.

If you are willing to join us in this dilemma, you can see their conversation below, and there's also a comment section if you want to share your thoughts with us. In the meantime, you can see what Redditors said about such behavior and what they think.

"I don't think she can be more annoying"

And they eagerly await 'hi' each day...

With growing up, the way of communication also changes, that's how it goes

Here's a different opinion:

Something like this

Such childish behavior

Maybe to check something else, or to say 'hi' to another person...

Well, they could have continued this conversation for another hundred messages

The OP seems content with how he handled the situation

In some way, it can be considered even flattery

That's how it goes, usually

Apparently, finding "the one" is only half the battle. The real challenge often lies in people's manners and politeness.

It's not okay to overanalyze everything, but it's not okay to be indifferent either. So, like everything else in life, the relationship demands emotional balance.

No one wants to drown their partner by uncontrolled outbursts of emotion, and surely the partner doesn't want to be drowned. This couple's conversation blurred the lines between annoying and controlling behaviors.

But one thing is sure, the boyfriend definitely felt drowned and obviously put 'period' to their further conversation, let alone their relationship.

Filip