Man Upset With Girlfriend For Not Answering His Calls After He Left Her Alone At Scary Parking Lot

"I looked around and to my surprise everyone had left me alone."

Damjan

• Published in Interesting
• January 31, 2024

Sometimes, things just don't go as planned, especially during special occasions like birthdays. A Reddit user shared a story about her boyfriend's birthday that turned into a bit of a mess.

They went out to have fun, but the night ended in a way that left her feeling upset and questioning her relationship. The evening started great, with a group heading out to celebrate her boyfriend's birthday.

But when they were ready to head home, they found out his truck had been towed. Her boyfriend got mad and started being rude to the store employee, so his friend took him outside to cool off.

She stayed back to talk to the employee and find out where the truck was towed. After getting the towing company's info, she walked out to call them, only to find out she couldn't get the truck until the next day.

The real shocker? Everyone had left her there alone.

She was in a not-so-safe place and had to walk to a gas station to call an Uber. Her boyfriend tried calling her, but she was so upset about being left behind that she didn’t answer.

Did the group's departure signify a momentary lapse of judgment or a deeper issue within the dynamics of the relationship? How should one balance personal emotions with the needs of a partner in such situations?

OP and a group of friends went out for OP's boyfriend's birthday, but on way home they noticed that his truck got towed.

OP's boyfriend got angry and was rude to an employee, so OP stayed to get towing company info from the employee.

While the OP was figuring out how to get the car back, everyone left, so she went to the first gas station to call an Uber ignoring her boyfriend's calls.

OP shouldn't stay with her boyfriend.

He doesn't seem like a good choice.

He doesn't seem like a good choice.

OP needs to reconsider the relationship as it may not be the best for her, and staying in it might not be in her best interest.

OP and her boyfriend are both in the wrong here.

She is inconsiderate for not responding to calls, even though her boyfriend's actions were questionable.

If he blames OP, she might reconsider her relationship.

OP's boyfriend has numerous red flags, and she should distance herself from him.

It's time for OP to move on and find someone better.

Based on what happened, it seems like there are some big problems in OP's relationship with her boyfriend. While we shouldn't judge the whole relationship based on one event, some things worry.

First, her boyfriend got upset and acted rudely when their truck got towed. This shows he might not handle tough situations well.

But OP also made a mistake by not answering her boyfriend's calls, even though his actions were questionable. Not talking to each other can make things worse.

So, it might be a good idea for OP to think about whether this relationship is right for her. They should talk openly about what happened and try to fix things.

If her boyfriend keeps acting in a concerning way and blames her, it might be better for OP to step back and look for someone who can give her a healthier and more supportive relationship. The most important thing is that OP should be in a relationship where she feels happy and safe in the long run.

Damjan