Woman's Tweets About Two Different Text Message Threads Perfectly Demonstrates What Abusive Vs. Healthy Relationships Look Like

Never allow abuse into your life and NEVER ignore the red flags!

Ayoub

• Published in Interesting
• November 13, 2018

Romantic relationships are a very crucial part of our lives, they make us feel loved and fulfilled and without them, life loses all meaning. Choosing an appropriate partner is the hardest thing to do, a lot of variables are taken into consideration from both sides, and if the two people are compatible enough, they end up forming a pair for an indefinite amount of time. 

Although, some relationships turn out to be disastrous and cause more pain than pleasure to at least one of the involved individuals.

@MayLarsen14 tweeted about two different message threads between a girlfriend and boyfriend, in both of them, the girlfriends let their partner know that they're out with some friends. One boyfriend acts like a complete jerk and tries to ruin the girl's night and the other demonstrates how a loving and caring boyfriend is supposed to act like in this kind of situation.

The Abusive Boyfriend:

The Caring Boyfriend:

As you can notice there's a huge difference between the two screenshots.

The first boyfriend is insecure and controlling, he desperately attempts into making his girl feel bad about not letting him know sooner, as if it matters or changes anything at all. Some girls might take this kind of bait and even leave the party in order to please the boyfriend, which is absolutely insane.

The second guy acted exactly how every boyfriend is supposed to act like, trust is a huge factor in every relationship and this guy proves just how unhealthy his relationship with this girl is.

Since this is on Twitter, people obviously had to give their opinions about this post.

Some of them even shared their personal experiences:

Manipulation at its finest.

It's not normal at all.

Ayoub