Man Dares Sadist Mom To Carry Out Her Threat Of Ruining His And His Sister's Life After Abusing Them Their Whole Lives
Abuse by parents can take many different forms, such as verbal, emotional, sexual, or physical. While emotional abuse occurs when a parent fails to provide their child with the love and support they need, physical violence is more obvious.
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Abuse, in all its manifestations, is destructive and can have a severe impact on a child's mental and physical health. It's a form of neglect, and it shows the person's inability to properly care for something.
In fact, it is one of the primary indicators of an emotionally abusive parent. When a parent consistently ignores their child or fails to meet their emotional needs, it gives the impression that the parent doesn't genuinely care about them.
The OP felt all these and more, as his parents were sadists. OP's elder sister would stand in front of him to shield him from their mother as she would hurl furniture and cutlery at them.
OP's dad was a truck driver, so he was always away from home. If he wasn't, then OP's sister was hiding him around the little nooks and crannies to keep him out of his sight.
The definition of a parent in the OP's head is safety, comfort, and warmth, but none of those things were provided by his parents. OP's sister later moved on but promised to get OP once he was through with school.
She kept to her promise, and they both worked hard to fend for themselves, only for their mom to show herself later on.
And here, we have the headline
![And here, we have the headline](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/7317fe3f9f280ba12cc09a54c9273371_25917_700.jpg)
The definition of a parent in the OP's head is safety, comfort, and warmth, but none of those things were provided by his parents
![The definition of a parent in the OP's head is safety, comfort, and warmth, but none of those things were provided by his parents](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/b61dbcc2d88ab90e57f9b567b5ce78c6_25917_700.jpg)
The year without her was the most suffocating as it only made the OP realize just how protected he really was
![The year without her was the most suffocating as it only made the OP realize just how protected he really was](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/79523d9f13dc0a75915ba4408fc56591_25917_700.jpg)
The OP thinks their subconscious knew they were messed up pretty bad inside
![The OP thinks their subconscious knew they were messed up pretty bad inside](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/7bfcbba0793c8739bfdeefb983a25214_25917_700.jpg)
The anger and hatred the OP felt when he read that line literally poured out
![The anger and hatred the OP felt when he read that line literally poured out](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/b26090a21cb0e689774539f74c8061a1_25917_700.jpg)
We've gathered some of the topmost comments from other Redditors for you to read through below
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Someone in the OP's circle let his mom know about it
![Someone in the OP's circle let his mom know about it](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/37c34d484ef0fc7319d1011d1121805e_25917_700.jpg)
Talking to a lawyer and having a lawyer go.with him
![Talking to a lawyer and having a lawyer go.with him](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/f79c56f79568dc4ea31e83c280d05ef9_25917_700.jpg)
The OP can get his social security number changed if he wants
![The OP can get his social security number changed if he wants](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/c6a99388c73e2d5e0b32ce4bcf11e7a3_25917_700.jpg)
The OP should block the contact point the mom used in contacting him
![The OP should block the contact point the mom used in contacting him](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/bc4d2c8aa27a969d14b875a61e88993c_25917_700.jpg)
This Redditor thinks it's okay to discuss it with the wife and sister
![This Redditor thinks it's okay to discuss it with the wife and sister](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/ba8f74c27d67ace160b152c04ba0be39_25917_700.jpg)
This Redditor hopes the family the OP and his sister are trying to build will be safe as they're a bit paranoid about the whole thing
![This Redditor hopes the family the OP and his sister are trying to build will be safe as they're a bit paranoid about the whole thing](https://static.pupperish.com/posts/724cb778161469d2939384b83432c0da_25917_700.jpg)
Many Redditors said that it's possible his wife reached out without realizing his mother's extreme abuse. OP was adviced to have a conversation with his wife where he would tell her everything as she may believe she is mending a family feud, not understanding that their mother tormented them.
She should understand that ending all communication permanently is in everyone's best interests. Leave your thoughts in the comments section too.