Woman Wants Advice On How She Can Bring Up Divorce Without Her Husband Making A Bigger Deal Out Of It
These posts are always hard to read because we know it's a real life situation with real life emotions.
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We're here with a post that is from Reddit, where people post on a thread to get advice. Reddit is a fantastic place to get unbiased advice from people that you don't even know on the internet.
Many people might not have anyone to talk to, or maybe they just don't want to talk to their friends and family about the particular situation as, most times, they all will be biased in some way. With this being said, this woman is coming to Reddit looking for advice on how she can tell her husband that she wants a divorce.
Filing for divorce is already hard in itself, but not really knowing how to approach the situation is one of the first obstacles that you have to overcome when you're considering divorce. It really is a hard situation, and it can take a toll on your mental health, so looking for advice is understandable.
So if you're interested in seeing what kind of advice people had to give in the comments, then keep on reading because we're going to show you the full original post, as well as the responses to OP. Let's dive in and see what people have to say about this situation.
OP's post is pretty straightforward and explains the situation with just wanting to divorce, but not sure how to bring it up to her husband.
u/ThrowRAOnlyNeedlesThe first comment was pretty hefty and had a lot of information in it. The rest of this comment is attached down below.
JFC_ucantbeseriousThis was a lovely comment and gave so many insights into how the situation might progress. Plus it looks like everyone agreed with this comment.
JFC_ucantbeseriousThis comment had so much to say and we are thankful to hear this from someone because it can give OP that sliver of hope they're looking for.
FeralburroThis person gave tons of really great advice and overall showed them that they might be able to hang onto their marriage.
FeralburroWe're definitely going to take this advice an apply it to our life because sometimes, being in a long relationship can be stressful.
FeralburroThey edited to add that these relationship threads aren't all bad and that it can help you to notice that you do love your partner.
FeralburroLove isn't easy and neither or relationships. It really does take work and communication from both sides to make it work.
MyLastUsernameWasDumOP put a comment in the thread that explained what their current situation is, which shows that they are going to counseling but it may not be worth it.
ThrowRAOnlyNeedlesThis person broke apart OP's post to show where they may need some advice and we hope that it helped OP out.
AlpacaSniperGoing through a divorce or even just considering it can be mentally draining and just overall hard to deal with. We hope that OP had a lot of help with this and took some of the advice given in the comments because there were a lot of awesome things said that might help to change OP's perspective.