Man Seeks Advice Online As He Gets Invited By His Crush To Vacation Trip But Doesn't Like The Destination

"Am i wasting money just in hope to get closer to her?"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• October 4, 2023

It may feel like a weight is bearing down on your chest when your social calendar is filled with dinners, drinks, parties, and other get-togethers. How are you supposed to fulfill everyone's demands while still making time for yourself?

Just keep in mind that you are not required to accept every invitation. This is particularly challenging during hectic seasons of the year, such as the holiday season, when there is a never-ending schedule of gatherings with coworkers, family, and friends over the course of a few short weeks.

The idea of vacations is paradoxical as we are all aware of how crucial it is to occasionally leave the office. You can unwind, relieve stress, strengthen family bonds, and get away from issues you've been struggling with during your time off from work so that you can approach things differently when you go back to the office.

But as a trip draws near, we typically view it with dread. There is simply too much to do!

New projects are beginning, and others need to be finished. How could we have chosen to travel this specific week?

It could become so severe that you wouldn't want to book another trip or just quit the whole thing. The OP of today's story didn't want to go on a vacation trip with this beautiful girl.

The OP likes the girl and is attracted to her so he decided to table the matter to the reddit community.

The OP writes

When the OP's in town, she always invites him to stuff and hangs out with him

Here are a bunch of the topmost comments from other redditors in response to the story

This Redditor thinks that girls know when boys are hitting on them

Is there anything in particular you'd like me to bring?

The OP revealed this somewhere in the comments

If it was egypt i would def go. not crummy at all not that the tourists are gone.

I refer not to say because it's a popular destination, and I KNOW that people would say "oh my god, most beautiful country in the world!!!!! you have to go".

Do you consider as a friend or more than just a friend?

Maybe she's just looking for a friend to travel with

The OP will at least make the trip more fun as well

What more does the OP needs since he wants to be with her?

There are still plenty of places in the world I want to see

Saving the money and asking her out on a real date

Some people think that girls know when you're hinting that you're into them and that they will say something if they don't feel the same way. But some Redditors believe that this could not be more wrong.

The OP should just be direct and ask the girl. He was further advised not to make the same mistake a lot of people made at his age.

Maryjane