Woman Lashes Out At Her Fiance In Front Of His Family After He Locked Out Her Indoor Cat

"My fiance made a list of places where the cat can and cannot go..."

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• September 7, 2022

It's hardly surprising that so many marriages end in divorce because establishing a connection is an incredibly difficult task. Please don't misunderstand us; we really believe in the power of love.

We also think that most problems can be resolved in a relationship built on respect and thoughtful regard for one's partner (or partners). Unfortunately, this is not a relationship that is built on respect or thoughtful consideration for the other person.

This is a Reddit post from a frustrated woman who appears to have identified and become engaged with a scumbag. Hold on until you find out what this is all about.

The OP is actually a single mother of a 13-year-old daughter who is madly in love with her cat. But for some reason, when the OP got engaged, her fiancé started feeling like he had a right to rule the little girl. He even offered her a list of activities that she and the cat are permitted to engage in, which is a significant warning sign of impending abuser behavior.

Naturally, the wife was unaware of all of this, just as she was unaware of how much her daughter had undoubtedly been hating this man all along. So, the OP didn't begin to doubt her fiancé's intentions until the cat vanished into thin air.

Then, she discovered the real truth: while no one was home, he had abandoned the indoor cat outside to die in the hopes that no one would remember.

My fiance moved in with me and my daughter, Zoey

I blew up at him in front of his family

He's been staying with a friend and has stopped calling and texting

Here is the indoor cat being talked about

Run for the hills if a partner enters your life and subsequently engages in a power battle with a significant family member. This is not typical, healthy conduct in a relationship.

In all honesty, what this man is doing is quite abusive, and the mother ought to feel guilty for having let it go for so long. Clearly, the OP’s fiancé received the blowback he deserved.

However, she afterwards questioned whether she took the right action and resorted to Reddit to get their opinion.

Things are going to change after we get married

This Redditor says that the guy in question should be the OP's ex fiance at this point

This commenter is screaming that it's time for the OP to protect your kid and the cat too

He lacks respect for you and your daughter among other things

Check out this prayer by narcissists

The OP should have taken the video clip to the police in order to file a complaint

The OP was really prepared to lash out at this man, and she carried it out. People were quite blunt in informing the OP that she misjudged this issue, as you can see in the comments.

She wasn't incorrect in how she responded, but she was incorrect in how long she tolerated it. Let us know what you think about this story below.

Maryjane