Husband's Attachment To Cat Sparks Marital Ultimatum Over Wife's Stress And Well-being

"She wants to give her back to an animal rescue."

Sophia

• Published in Interesting
• August 10, 2024

Balancing the needs of a beloved pet with the well-being of a spouse can create intense household drama. In one Reddit post, a man finds himself in a precarious situation involving his senior cat and his wife's growing frustration.

Two years ago, they compromised on adopting a cat instead of a dog, considering their apartment living situation. The cat, once involved in a house fire, has some quirks: she sneezes frequently, sometimes tracks litter messes, and occasionally hisses at the wife, especially when she's holding something.

Despite these issues, the man has grown incredibly fond of the cat, who has become his best buddy. The cat greets him warmly and seeks his attention, making it hard for him to imagine life without her.

However, his wife feels the opposite. The cat's behavior and messiness are sources of constant stress for her, exacerbated by her long work hours. Feeling like she can't relax in her own home, she has reached her breaking point, demanding the cat be rehomed.

Caught in the middle, the husband is torn between his love for the cat and his duty to support his wife. This dilemma highlights the challenges of pet ownership in a relationship and the difficult decisions that sometimes need to be made to maintain harmony at home.

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Two years ago, OP compromised on a cat for her birthday instead of a dog.

Despite fears of lifetime costs, they compromised on adopting a sweet, playful senior cat.

The cat, injured in a fire, has damaged ears and nasal passages, causing frequent sneezing.

He tries to catch the boogers, but they’re as elusive as his timing to spot them.

The cat occasionally tracks poop outside her box—about six times in two years. He cleans it up promptly.

The cat hisses at his wife only when she’s holding something and walking around.

The cat's hissing, though not aggressive, upsets his wife, ruining her night despite her good mood.

His wife, stressed by the cat's behavior, wants to return her, but the cat’s his favorite pet.

He’s torn: his wife wants to give the old, unappealing cat to a rescue, fearing her suffering.

Tonight, they fought over an ultimatum: the cat or her. He’ll research solutions, but she feels unvalidated.

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When did the cat become a surprise feature in her first-time cat-owner experience?

NTA. If her issues continue, imagine the messes children would bring—boogers and chaos included!

NAH. In his first marriage, his feral rescue dog growled and nipped at his now-ex husband.

He never gave an ultimatum, knowing she'd choose her dog over him. They’re divorced now.

The dog wasn’t a factor in the divorce, but he’d choose his wife every time, no conflict.

Feeling torn shows he values his wife. If she feels second to the cat, that’s tough. NAH.

The cat hisses at her when she’s holding something? Either past abuse or a hidden correction method.

NTA for keeping the cat, but he sounds like an a-hole for getting a pet she didn’t want.

Can the cat have a cozy room? Different rooms can work wonders. NTA.

He should engage with his wife to uncover other stressors. The cat might just be the symptom.

NTA. Keep the cat—if she’d divorce over a sickly cat, she lacks sympathy and emotion.

Balancing a beloved cat and a happy wife is a tightrope walk. Maybe the next pet should come with a prenup. Sometimes, the fur flies in unexpected ways, reminding us that compromise and compassion are key to keeping both hearts and homes harmonious.

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